Child Marriage

Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can.

John Wesley

Theologian

What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others and the world remains and is immortal.

Albert Pike

Author

Service is the rent we pay for being. It is the very purpose of life and not something you do in your spare time.

Marian Wright Edelman

Founder, Children’s Defense Fund

What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal.

Albert Pike

Author

When a daughter is seen as a burden, she is often married as a child

Child marriage is one of the most common ways a girl’s childhood ends. More than 50% of girls from the poorest families in the developing world are married as children, and a girl from a poor family is more than three times as likely to marry before 18 as a girl from a wealthier family. Where a daughter costs dowry and brings in no income, marrying her off early is treated as reducing the family’s burden. Yet a child bride does not simply lose her wedding day — she loses her school years, her choices and her chance to become her own person.

Why child marriage happens

  • Dowry and the cost of a daughter — dowry is a widely practised norm, so the birth of a daughter is often treated as a financial burden. Marrying her off — however young — is seen as ending that liability.
  • Misplaced social beliefs about gender — in some rural areas, a girl is expected to belong to her husband’s household, so her own education and choices are not considered important.
  • Poverty — for a family living in extreme poverty, a daughter is one less mouth to feed, and economic desperation makes families more willing to give a girl away young.

What a girl loses

A girl given away in marriage at a very young age is deprived of access to education, of training and of the right to take control of her own destiny. A child bride is more likely to drop out of school, to suffer poor health and to be powerless to change her circumstances.

The reverse is equally true: when a girl stays in school, she is far less likely to be married as a child. That is why keeping girls in education is central to ending child marriage — and at the heart of everything Sneha Karma does.

We earn our living by what we get, but we earn a life by what we give.

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Proverb

Child marriage does not sit apart from the other causes

Child marriage sits at the intersection of everything we work on. It is rooted in the low value placed on daughters, deepened by poverty, and fed by a girl being kept out of school.